I actually conceived it on 11th April 2006, but due to my laziness didn’t publish it up till now.
Explanation of the words “Satisfaction” and “Compromise” in terms of marital life.
Life get changed to a great degree after marriage, our emotions, obligations, preferences, beliefs, point of view, reasons to leave and almost each and every aspect of our life get a new dimension which is sometimes quite different from previous knowledge and experience and it is not obvious that the new definition is similar to the old.
When a man and a woman committed to live with each other and take the oath to be loyal throughout to his/her life they actually commit to satisfy each other or at least try their best. Here some questions rise “What are the parameters of satisfaction?”, “What are the boundaries and limitations of satisfaction?” and “How long a person should go to please his/her spouse?”
According to me; although I am a man but I think my approach is quit generalized. The satisfaction of a married couple is comprises upon the following parts:
· Emotional satisfaction
· Psychological satisfaction
· Physical satisfaction
All the parts are not all-in-one or one-in-all but they have a deep relationship with each other. Here is more explanation of each one.
Emotional Satisfaction:
It involves how much love, affection and care a person shows to his/her spouse.
Tips:
Show that you like your spouse and prove it with your gestures and postures.
Note: it is often noted that many people claims to love their spouse more than anything in the world but practically they are doing the opposite and not showing any fondness it is nothing but a very negative approach.
Psychological Satisfaction:
It is basically the fulfillment of his/her esteems needs, social status, and how he or she wants to see his/her spouse in comparison of others apparently, financially and socially.
Tips
Coordinate with each other properly; one should know what his/her spouse needs in him/her. It is not necessary to transform yourself to a personality he or she wills but there are some ways in between. Seek the ways and you will get the path of satisfaction.
Physical Satisfaction:
It includes the fulfillment of his/her bodily requirements like food, cloths, shelter and other living measures being a spouse.
Tips
Try to make your likings and disliking coherent with each other.
NB: A Complete list of tips will be covered in another article.
Compromise
A happy couple always knows how to get a middle way in the situations where there are any differences, either in opinions, choice or whatever. Each one has a goal to satisfy each other in all the satisfaction levels I defined, but it is not necessary that two individuals have all the things common in them; in this case no couple can reach the ideal condition of 100% satisfaction.
To complete the count a couple must have to make compromises. I categorized these compromises in two types I call first as Healthy and optimistic compromise and the second one named unhealthy compromise or simply sacrifice.
A healthy compromise is actually essential for a successful and flourishing marital life while a sacrifice often ends up on separation or diverse.
I will elaborate both kinds of compromises with improvement tips in another article soon.
Explanation of the words “Satisfaction” and “Compromise” in terms of marital life.
Life get changed to a great degree after marriage, our emotions, obligations, preferences, beliefs, point of view, reasons to leave and almost each and every aspect of our life get a new dimension which is sometimes quite different from previous knowledge and experience and it is not obvious that the new definition is similar to the old.
When a man and a woman committed to live with each other and take the oath to be loyal throughout to his/her life they actually commit to satisfy each other or at least try their best. Here some questions rise “What are the parameters of satisfaction?”, “What are the boundaries and limitations of satisfaction?” and “How long a person should go to please his/her spouse?”
According to me; although I am a man but I think my approach is quit generalized. The satisfaction of a married couple is comprises upon the following parts:
· Emotional satisfaction
· Psychological satisfaction
· Physical satisfaction
All the parts are not all-in-one or one-in-all but they have a deep relationship with each other. Here is more explanation of each one.
Emotional Satisfaction:
It involves how much love, affection and care a person shows to his/her spouse.
Tips:
Show that you like your spouse and prove it with your gestures and postures.
Note: it is often noted that many people claims to love their spouse more than anything in the world but practically they are doing the opposite and not showing any fondness it is nothing but a very negative approach.
Psychological Satisfaction:
It is basically the fulfillment of his/her esteems needs, social status, and how he or she wants to see his/her spouse in comparison of others apparently, financially and socially.
Tips
Coordinate with each other properly; one should know what his/her spouse needs in him/her. It is not necessary to transform yourself to a personality he or she wills but there are some ways in between. Seek the ways and you will get the path of satisfaction.
Physical Satisfaction:
It includes the fulfillment of his/her bodily requirements like food, cloths, shelter and other living measures being a spouse.
Tips
Try to make your likings and disliking coherent with each other.
NB: A Complete list of tips will be covered in another article.
Compromise
A happy couple always knows how to get a middle way in the situations where there are any differences, either in opinions, choice or whatever. Each one has a goal to satisfy each other in all the satisfaction levels I defined, but it is not necessary that two individuals have all the things common in them; in this case no couple can reach the ideal condition of 100% satisfaction.
To complete the count a couple must have to make compromises. I categorized these compromises in two types I call first as Healthy and optimistic compromise and the second one named unhealthy compromise or simply sacrifice.
A healthy compromise is actually essential for a successful and flourishing marital life while a sacrifice often ends up on separation or diverse.
I will elaborate both kinds of compromises with improvement tips in another article soon.
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